You are absolutely heartbroken after the breakup. You can’t believe that you and your ex have attacked each other so viciously! They said such terrible things to each other, things they know they didn’t mean. You have a big problem now. Your ex doesn’t want to talk to you since the breakup. What are you doing now? There are so many things you must do with your ex!
There are a few reasons why your ex doesn’t want to talk to you again. However, the terrible way you broke up is the main reason. All those nasty things they said to each other really hurt both of them, and it also created a lot of anger.
You can’t expect your ex to just ignore what happened between the two of you. Like you, your ex can’t believe they were so horrible to each other. This has also left your ex very confused. You see, while your ex knows that he still loves you, there is a battle inside your ex: should he get back with you or not?
The other reason is that your ex feels very bad about being so mean to you and feels very guilty right now. He / she did not want to tell you those things and is not sure whether to contact you or not. Your ex doesn’t know what your reaction will be and is a little scared to give it a try right now.
Your ex doesn’t want to talk to you anymore, but over time this feeling will change. You just need to be patient and allow your ex to get over the resentment and pain that the breakup caused, that’s it. You and your ex need to take it easy now. Both are unsure of each other’s true feelings and need to slowly discover what awaits them.
So, in the meantime, try to get over your bad feelings as quickly as possible by spending quality time with your family. They probably didn’t see you much while you and your ex were together, and they’ll be happy to have you around. They know that your ex doesn’t want to talk to you anymore and will do anything to make you happy.