If you were to eavesdrop on a group of men talking over dinner or a drink, it wouldn’t be surprising that the topic of their discussion almost always leads to talking about women. And just like any standard girl-pegging session, the guys also talk about a list of traits, qualities, and characteristics they look for in a woman.
Sure, there are the usual rants and compliments about various “hot” women they come into contact with on a daily basis, but then the name of someone truly amazing will pop up and suddenly you’ll notice universal agreement around the table. . .
This woman seems to be the MOST FASCINATING woman everyone has ever met.
She’s not FHM sexy, nor is she a Victoria’s Secret voluptuous, yet there’s something about her that makes men stand in awe of her to the point that the only words they can say are aaahh. . . and wow. . . . and oohh. . . .
So what makes this woman so amazing and fascinating?
I’ll answer that question in a minute, but now I want you to do some research first. I want you to spend a day watching movies or TV shows involving some of the most desirable and fascinating women in the world. So I want you to go buy some men’s magazines too while you’re at it to give you a rough idea of what SEXY is all about. FHM, Maxim, Zoo Weekly, you name it. Now I want you to go to Google and YouTube to keep watching some of the most powerful women in the world.
Can you point out what makes these women different from other women? Notice how they’re not afraid to speak their mind? Notice how they seem to fit perfectly into the world? It’s almost like they do everything with a natural grace? Do you notice how they just enjoy their lives without caring what people think of them? Notice how they glow with confidence? They’re comfortable wherever they are, it’s almost like they make everything effortless. Pay attention to their posture, tone of voice, and body language. . .
Do you notice how her contagious smile just melts people’s hearts? Now, do you know what makes these women the most fascinating and amazing women on the planet? What do you think gives them that X factor? If I had to describe the one thing that makes women attractive to men, this would be it.
It’s his “COOL ATTITUDE”.
The key to having a great dating attitude is not to change what you’re doing, but to change your attitude toward what you’re doing.
You don’t have to be 6″6 with a voluptuous figure and silky soft blonde hair to be considered an amazing woman. You don’t need to starve yourself to be considered “beautiful.” If you’re one of the most successful and brilliant women on the planet, neither if your bank account is full of money, as long as you believe in yourself, that should be enough.
Even if you are not as pretty as the girl next to you, as long as you have the best attitude then you are the best woman. If you are a woman with a kick ass attitude. . . Never BE SELF DEPRECATED because you know that her outward behavior is a direct reflection of her attitude.
You are not socially inept or overly available. It’s not you who chases, they chase you. You don’t settle for men who aren’t really that into you. You never EVER beg. Don’t get too attached from the start. You are not a pessimist by nature. You are not needy or clingy. You engage their mind and heart instead of what’s hidden under their pants. You are not some hopeless, pathetic emotional cripple. You emerge from any painful and bewildering situation seemingly unscathed with your hair in place and your makeup intact because you realize that these setbacks are absolutely vital to your development.
You don’t “lose” it when your relationship fizzles out, you LIVE it to fight another day. You just accept the fact that life surprises you the way it does and there is nowhere else to go but forward. So instead of crying in the bathroom, you buy yourself a sexy dress and start getting into the dating scene again.
Bottom line?
Attitude is CONTAGIOUS. If you develop a kick ass attitude, the men around you will also automatically pick up the vibe subconsciously and realize that you are different from the rest of the pack, that you are one of a kind.
If the standard attitude of most women is to patiently wait for men to make the first move, then I suggest you stay away from that old attitude because you are a 21st century woman. So instead of waiting until the cows come home, leave him some subtle hints so he “gets it” so you can encourage him to make a move on you. But don’t make it easy for him either, rather make him work for your number. You make fun of him. You bust his chops. You speak what you think. You put your head in a little.
Become a woman with an amazing attitude and I guarantee that guys won’t be able to resist you.