Those women who think that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach are missing a few inches. Believe it or not, but this is a fact; women who do not know how to distinguish between food and sex are useless in the kitchen or in bed. I am not here to hurt anyone’s ego, but my goal is to share and inform all those couples who do not intend to indulge in the most successful art of lovemaking. And possibly because the boy or girl can’t stand the smell that our private parts emit or think it’s just an idea from porn movies. Last but not least; they might think it’s not necessary at all or just a waste of time. These three reasons are applicable to different individuals and couples. But it’s not as complex as it sounds, rather foreplay is considered to be one of the best parts of sex ever invented by humans before they finally engage in intercourse.
First, you need to understand that foreplay or oral sex is not taboo, as far as my views go, I think it is simply the mood-enhancing or initiating act done to heighten sexual arousal before penetrating. . Let the thought of having sex be the last thing on your mind when you’re about to have sex. In fact, the pleasure one gets from foreplay and oral sex is more divine and sharp than the actual act of penetration. Before we get into the detailed discussion of foreplay, I’d like you to open your mind and get rid of all the myths about it and try to accept it as delicious. đŸ˜‰
While playing the game, please follow the rules to make it more interesting, but as we become more experimental day by day, don’t you think we shouldn’t follow any rules? This is what I suggest if you really want to make it big and exciting. Foreplay doesn’t necessarily mean just organ licking and sucking. Any sexual act, behavior, signal, comment, form, etc. can be considered part of foreplay. Mainly touching, erotic talking, kissing, hugging and teasing are widely accepted forms of foreplay. By touching I mean that it could be a sensual touching of certain body parts or the genitals of a man or a woman.
The ways of foreplay are different for men and women, but more than the ways, what matters is the fun and satisfaction. For men, sex is more of a visual pleasure, that is, they are not turned on unless they see something erotic or sensual, and for women, it is more of a feeling, a touch, and an emotional satisfaction. So girls, if you want to make your friend happy, talk to him. Ask him what he wants and how. Porn movies have a greater impact on the sexual life of couples and also men like them more. Men often visualize their spouse or girlfriend as a porn actress and expect them to act the same way as they do in the movie. Technically, this is not possible for many of the girls. Why? Because there are no re-shots, no video effects, and no camera tricks involved in real-life sex. It becomes a failure when they are insisted on doing so.
Please note that your spouse is not a porn actor or actress. The ones who appear in the porn movies are highly paid entertainers and are by no means in love with each other. They just do it because the director has instructed them that way.
How to perform foreplay on men
You can start well in a public place but eventually you need a quiet place to do it. Women read the advice to please their partners the way he always wanted them to.
*As I mentioned earlier, sex is more of a visual pleasure for men, just freeze this point in your mind to melt your partner (Rule 1). Even while having intercourse, these naughty guys always want to see the organs with their eyes wide open. poor thing! Why don’t they understand that they can’t be performers and spectators at the same time? Anyway, go ahead girls, let him see you in your favorite lingerie, tease, slowly undress with some sexy erotic number and give him a nice visual treat.
* Another way could be a body massage. Give him a massage on his genitals. Don’t forget to use lots of lubricants. Maybe you can use some liquid chocolate, which can also be licked. Let him see how well you can eat his body, (remember rule 1) moan loudly; use your tongue a lot (Rule 2), let him feel the animal in you (Rule 3). Men like it more when they see that their girls like sex and other sexual activities more.
* Time is the essence of great sex! This is what I mentioned in one of my previous articles: Time Matters! The man often woke up with a morning stick (hope you’re familiar with the term) to grab. Yes seize the situation as well as the organ of it. Caress him well, use your tongue all over his abdomen, pelvis, balls and shaft.
* Erotic and dirty talk always works for men. (Rule 4) This is precisely why most men like phone sex so much. They love to imagine another girl instead of his wife or partner. Go ahead, give them a chance to do it. Why don’t you have phone sex with your husband tonight? Do it, and when he’s turned on as hell, give him the perfect oral experience before you both go crazy.
* Men also love to have bondage sex. Honey, try something different tonight, these words are enough to send shivers down her spine. “Let’s do a performance of our favorite erotica. Tie my hands and legs to the bed and rest, you know.” In this entire game, you will be the director who will take charge and the plot will unfold according to your wishes.
It’s not hard to keep your husband under your control, if you know how to please him. And believe me, there is nothing easier in this world than sexually satisfying a man. He will not ask for more if you follow what is written above in a true sense.
foreplay for women
So guys, it’s your turn to make her happy now. The first thing you need to understand is that initially she needs all your love. Show her how much you love her (Rule 1). Saying you love her is a kind of emotional satisfaction and social security for many women.
* Never rush when dealing with your wife or gal. She might think that you are in a hurry to finish the act. (Remember Rule 1) Even if you want to strip her, do it at snail speed.
* More than anything, a female responds well to touch and caress. Have to. Give it a light touch as a feather when necessary. Watch her body language, look into her eyes. Just touch her whole body. Women love to feel, (Rule 2) let her feel your warm hand everywhere.
* Worthy manners (Rule 3). The males prefer to go feral, but the females do not. They do it with style and sophistication instead of going wild and raw. Things like showering together, lip syncing for long hours, playing with ice, the idea of ​​scented candles, flowers, etc. they are definitely a turn on for women.
* Most women prefer to rub their organs and kiss and kiss for a long time. Kissing here also includes gently biting on the neck, lower chin, earlobes, pretty bones, breasts, nipples, and all sensitive parts. Keep in mind that women love to get a back massage. I told him no? No darling ever. Unlike the physical structure, the sensitive nerves of women are evenly located. Once you successfully locate all of her love points, she will do whatever you ask.
*Never show that you can’t eat her body as well as her. A slow lick and bite on her abdomen, pelvic, rectum and vagina will drive her wild. Keep in mind that more than the vagina, the rectum has a higher proportion of sensitive nerve endings (even in men), so don’t forget to stimulate that.
* Whisper to her while doing the act, which will make her feel more loved. Never forget to compliment her body and the different body parts (Rule 4). who don’t like to be praised anyway, mostly women. Oh! They just love it and as far as I know the males are good liars. I’m sorry, but it’s an honest confession.
I think these tips are enough for both of you. If I keep talking about the rules, we’d be sitting here for seven days and seven nights. Now it’s your turn to follow these rules and take action. I mentioned at the beginning about the smell of body parts. Let me tell you a few more things about body odor. During sexual intercourse, the level of testosterone increases and our body releases a chemical called oxytocin, popularly known as the hormone of love. This hormone has a magical effect on the human mind and tends to bring the couple closer. This is why we see increasing intimacy between partners during intercourse. However, many couples have a strong affinity for body odor from their genitals and armpits, and at the same time, many do not. You will not get the prolonged pleasure unless you do not accept this smell. So try to deal with it, trust me, once you do, you will be addicted.
Risk factor’s
For the most part, foreplay is considered safe and carries fewer risk factors than sexual intercourse. If this act is carried out between two healthy couples and practically free of any STD, it is possible that they will tend to enjoy it more. However, it is harmful when one of the partners suffers from sexually transmitted diseases. In this case, the exchange of blood or fluid from the infected partner’s body parts to the other partner can increase the risk of infection. You can use a condom or dental dam for protection.
It is a universally recognized truth that what is prohibited is more attractive, moreover foreplay during sex is not prohibited at all. If it doesn’t do any good, trust me, it won’t do any harm either. Human beings love to break the rules, so break all the rules and just do it and feel the ecstasy and warmth of each other’s bodies and have a great sexual experience tonight.