Who could give you better advice on the subject of foreplay than another woman? For most women, foreplay is an important part of sex. Sexual foreplay will increase the intimacy between lovers and make the whole lovemaking session much more enjoyable. Furthermore, only less than 18% of women were able to orgasm during intercourse. Therefore, you absolutely must master the foreplay techniques to satisfy her! In this article, you will learn 3 foreplay tips to sexually stimulate her and drive her crazy.
3 killer tips for sexual foreplay
1. Don’t rush: As a general rule of thumb, you should keep foreplay to a minimum of 15 minutes. According to sexologist Yvonne K. Fulbright, “Most women need about 20 minutes of arousal time to reach the ‘orgasmic platform,’ when the clitoris is most sensitive and the body is ready for stimulation.” (Source: Cosmopolitan). Don’t make the mistakes like most men: rush into sex too fast!
It is recommended that you take the time and effort to explore your body. Generally, the sensitive areas are the clitoris, the genitals and the breasts. However, different women have different preferences when it comes to hot spots and lightness (or roughness of touch). Some like the tender touch, while others prefer an aggressive rub. That’s not a one-size-fits-all, so take the time to figure out how to turn her on.
2. Watch porn together – Porn is a perfect way to get both of you in “the mood”, but it is also true that most women hate porn since porn movies are usually designed for men! I have warned you not to rush during foreplay. Porn movies are just that, men penetrate too fast! In other words, you should prepare some porn movies with an attractive story and a slow sex scene. These movies are often produced and directed by women.
Once you find the movie, you and she can lie down naked to enjoy the movie. You may want to give him an unexpected touch or kiss when you are watching the movie. Or maybe you want to stop the movie and start playing with it with the new technique you see in the movie.
3. Teasing Technique: Once you discover his sensitive area, you can practice the teasing technique. It’s pretty simple: touch the areas around your sensitive area, but avoid that area until you can’t take it anymore. I am going to explain it here with the example of the breast orgasm (if your sensitive point is the nipple). To start, kiss her from the neck to the chest. Then play with your chest with your hands or tongue in circular motions. Don’t touch your nipple. Repeat the process until he begs you to reach for his nipple.
The teasing technique is a very powerful sexual foreplay technique. You may want to experiment with the technique with different speeds, rhythms, and different hot spots. Remember, variation rules if you crave an exciting sex life.