Are your friends tired of hearing these words of yours “help me get my ex boyfriend back”? If there are, maybe it’s time to stop complaining and take matters into your own hands. If you want your ex back, your friends can only do so much. The rest is up to you.
To get your ex back, there are several things you need to keep in mind:
• You have to accept the breakup and deal with it
Acceptance is the key to being happy. And being happy is crucial in your quest to get your ex back. Yeah, I know breakups are hard to deal with, but you’re going to have to get out of it if you want to get him back. Give yourself a little time to feel hurt, and then get over it.
• Make it up to your ex by being the best you can be.
Part of the reason your man left you could be that you are not what you used to be. He might be missing the hot, vivacious, active, fun-loving person he first met. Maybe you neglected yourself while you were together and he wants that person. He goes to the gym and starts to get you in shape. He goes to the salon and get your hair done. Upgrade your wardrobe. These things should help you improve.
• Start socializing and forget about your ex for a while
Doing this would actually increase your chances of getting back together with your ex. Go out with your friends and have fun. Do the things you’ve always loved to do. Take up a new hobby or sport and take your mind off the breakup. You will soon realize that you have adapted well to the situation and that you are ready to take on anything, like getting your ex back.
• Don’t think of your ex as your ex when you meet him
What does this mean? It can be confusing, but it just means that you shouldn’t think of your ex as the guy you loved who broke your heart when you meet him because you’re bound to say the wrong thing. Old wounds could open up and you could blur something hurtful.
But if you think of him as a guy you know, you can face him with a smile on your face and be nice to him. In fact, he will think that you have dealt very well with the breakup. He will even think that you have acquired a very good disposition and that he could like you again.