Growing up, I had a hard time getting girls to like me (in a more than friendly way). He just couldn’t figure out the secret to winning hearts.
I saw it as a BIG problem, and I decided to dedicate a few years of my life to finding the solution to my question:
“How do I make myself more attractive? So that people (girls) will like me.”
I spent countless hours studying social dynamics, psychology, love systems, and just about anything I could get my hands on. I finally found the answer I was looking for in the most unexpected places. The answer I found goes beyond how (girls) like me. Take advantage of a force that will have the whole world loves you. Everyone and everything around you will naturally be attracted to you. From potential business clients to clients, friends, family, and even bunnies. They will all gravitate towards you.
Today I am going to share my valuable findings with you.
My hope in sharing this information with you is to help you find and display the best version of yourself for the world to see. To help you refine and grow from within, in an organic, sustainable and happier way. By laying the right foundation now, you will begin to attract all good things into your life.
Who wouldn’t want that?
Now before we begin, we must put aside some disclaimers.
WARNING: The information that I am about to share with you can easily be abused in the wrong hands (think Darth vader). Viewer discretion is advised!
DANGER: DO NOT CONTINUE READING if you suffer or have a history of emotional or power abuse.
Remind: With great power comes great responsibility.
ARE YOU READY? LET’S DIVE IN IT!
The secret to being more attractive is to refine the qualities that are already embedded in your DNA, latent deep within you.
Through the right kind of education, practice, and service, you will become a magnetizing and irresistible force of attraction.
One of my favorite quotes that explains this in more detail:
“See man as a mine rich in gems of inestimable value. Education, alone, can reveal his treasures and allow humanity to benefit from them.” -Baha’u’llah
This information is not new. It has existed long before us, and will continue to exist long after we leave, it is ancient and eternal (like gravity), something powerful, right?
So what is it?
IS THE POWER OF THE 52 VIRTUES
bat Man i used it.
Superman i used it.
Almost everyone we admire in our lives, at some point, used or demonstrated the powerful attractive force of the virtues.
But wait, what the heck is a virtue?
The virtues are:
“Behaviors or qualities that show a high moral level. Goodness, virtues, righteousness, morality, integrity, dignity, uprightness, honor, decency, respectability, nobility, dignity, purity; principles, ethics.”
Sexy, right?
Well maybe not at first glance (to the inexperienced eye). Let’s put it in context. One our generation could better understand:
Think about the following:
- Disney used virtuous qualities to create irresistible character prototypes that made it nearly impossible for a generation of lost children (like me) to even try to make the ladies lose their minds (think “Knight in shining armor“).
- Mario I always have the princess. Bowser didn’t.
- Ryan gosling on “The notebook” – Irresistible, right?
- Excellent inventors, innovative, and artists. Leonardo Da Vinci, Steve Jobs, MC Hammer.
The list goes on and on …
Virtuous qualities it can be found in almost every character we’ve been drawn to. The virtues are so powerful that we feel them in others, without even knowing what they were or why.
The good news for us is that we don’t need to be a superhero or a knight in shining armor to demonstrate these virtuous qualities. They exist within each of us. If we can identify it and work on it, we can all become a magnetic power of love and the center of attraction.
Virtues are the pillars of all the attractive, influential, and valuable things in the world.
THE 52 VIRTUES:
- Assertiveness
- Taking care of
- Cleaning
- Compassion
- Confidence
- Consideration
- Courage
- Courtesy
- Creativity
- Detachment
- Determination
- Enthusiasm
- Excellence
- Fidelity
- Flexibility
- Sorry
- Amiability
- Generosity
- Sweetness
- Utility
- Honesty
- Honor
- Modesty
- Idealism
- Joy
- Justice
- Amiability
- Love
- Loyalty
- Mercy
- Moderation
- Modesty
- Obedience
- Order
- Patience
- Tranquility
- Prayer
- Decision
- Reliability
- Respect
- Responsibility
- Reverence
- Self discipline
- Service
- Constancy
- Touch
- Gratitude
- Tolerance
- Confidence
- Integrity
- Veracity
- Unit
Pick one and practice it daily, until it becomes easy for you. Mastering even one of the above will ignite a flame that the world will notice.
So the answer to the question: “How do I make myself more attractive?” it is,
Strive to bring out and refine the latent virtues within you.
Practice, practice, practice, until it becomes effortless.
Rethink pushing, cheating, stealing, and belittling other people, as a strategy to attract people into your life. It just doesn’t work that way. Work with the natural systems of life, rather than against them, regardless of what television and the media may make you believe is right or wrong, attractive or unattractive.
Remember who you REALLY are and live life with the highest possible value standards (even if it goes against the norms of society). HE IS GOOD LOOKING!
Best of luck, the world belongs to you!