In this sequence of articles we have been exploring a number
of new and effective techniques in past life regression (PLR)
therapy. These techniques, which I have developed for 25
years of specialization in PLR work, include trauma healing
of past lives, contacting creative abilities, and in our
Last article, clearing past life karma. Today we
will address the healing of troubled relationships that are the
result of past life contracts.
According to many PLR researchers, most of us keep
relationships over a series of sequential lifetimes. some even
affirm that souls travel in family groups in which the father
in one life it may be a son or a daughter in another. since we
they often choose similar facial features from one lifetime to the next,
it is not unusual according to this theory to find a number of
people in our lives who at our first meeting seem strangely
familiar. This is an aspect of familiar deja vu
experience. I remember one time when I first moved to California,
see a stranger and get the distinct impression that I
he had met her before and had even been married to her. Also
Embarrassed to approach her, I looked away. minutes later she
He came up to me and asked me where we had met. I said
I wasn’t sure, but I felt like we got married. She replied: “I
I know!” I could give many similar examples of my two
personal and professional life. For most of us these
The experiences are a mere curiosity. But for some people it is
critical importance for discovering the nature of these past
relationships. That’s because sometimes the subconscious
memories of this past history interfere with present ones
happiness within a relationship. I call these patterns “past
life contracts.
Past life contracts are not about some legally defined
relation to a contract written in some cosmic
courthouse. Rather, they refer to a pattern of emotions
relationship that persists through many lifetimes and affects
our current relationship with another person in a very
powerful way. An example of such a contract is the so-called
soulmate relationship. Two strangers meet. somehow his eyes
and the faces look enormously familiar with each other. I am not
referring to a primarily sexual attraction, although that may be
part of the equation. Usually there is a feeling of such singular
and deep familiarity that sexual attraction does exist
seems somehow secondary to this deep sense of connection. This
relationship could be one of deep friendship, siblings,
parent-child, even business partnership, although most
common is companions. I know a couple who get into a
crowded party. They were both with someone else. But when they saw
each other, they instantly knew this was “The One” they had
been searching. They have been happily married now for
twenty years. During these years, the two have
explored many lives in which they were together. This type of
contract is precious and beautiful, but usually not
require PLR therapy. If it is not broke, do not fix it.
Unfortunately, very few such cosmic connections are that problematic.
free. And while counseling and therapy can help many couples
and families solve their interpersonal problems, the
complications that a couple brings to their relationship from
their past lives together can rarely be healed without
address past life agreements between them. However, I
have observed that even the most highly trained PLR therapists do not have
training in the ins and outs of this type of work.
There are three elements common to most of these connections.
First: was there a sense of immediate familiarity, perhaps
even a sense of fate when they first met?
Sometimes a partner picks it up right away; the other can
didn’t get it for a while. Second: Are you obsessed with this?
person, feeling unusually needed or attached in some way, even
even though their needs are not being met? I had a client who
obsessed with her ex-husband for twenty years after a
tumultuous marriage and ugly divorce, so much so that she was
unable to imagine herself with another man. Not all contracts
they are so paralyzing, but many share a similar energy. Third: do
finds that all the therapy he does, while helpful for
many ways, seems to have little or no effect on this
relationship? If a customer answered yes to these questions, I
know that contract work will make a difference.
The steps involved in reviewing and changing this contract are
Too complex. First we give instructions to the client
subconscious mind in a trance to take us to the moment when
this particular pattern of relationship began for the first time. Each
contract begins with a promise made to the other person. That
the promise can be spoken by mutual agreement or simply a
silent message we say to ourselves (eg “I’ll make her mine!”)
To become a contract, this promise must be followed for years.
of obsessing over the person and the promise. we examine all
of the consequences of this promise and this obsession,
sometimes over many lifetimes, so that the client can see the total
results of this promise. So we have to ask the customer
higher self if there is any karmic debt the client owes this
another person, or some lesson from them that still needs to be
learned. If there is, we need to explore this using karma.
script protocol that we saw in the previous article. But,
then we are free to change or terminate the contract. The next step
is to go back to the original scenario of this promise and change
that promise to reflect the client’s desire to terminate or change
the relationship. Finally, we can ask the client’s partner in
present life if they agree to these changes. if the answer is
yes, a new relationship is possible with this other person.
But if the answer is no, then we can and must put an end to the
relationship. If termination is required, the customer
usually you will be surprised how fast and effortless this is
accomplished.
My favorite example is that of a woman who loved her husband.
five years very deeply, but I couldn’t stand his personality.
Divorce seemed the logical solution, since he was absolutely
unwilling to change. But she just couldn’t imagine leaving.
him. In a PLR session, he returned to the old South of the US.
There, as a beautiful young southern belle, she fell in love
love behind the barn with a handsome young black slave. In it
heat of his forbidden love she vowed to love him forever.
They shared the dream of one day getting married and running away together.
of his life on the plantation. However, reality soon closed in. She
she got pregnant, and when a black baby came out, her father
he soon guessed the culprit. My client cried when he told me that
her beloved was hunted down and killed with torches, hounds,
and shotguns. He spent the rest of his life pining for
lost love.
That night she went to her husband’s house. but she couldn’t
finish telling your story. He kept interrupting her
tears himself, recalling his own details of the
tragedy. When she told that she had killed him, he laughed. “YO
They escaped! she announced cheerfully. They lie to you! Years
Later I came back for you, but you had married someone else.
Through tears, she replied, “Yes, but I never loved anyone but you!”
Only then could the two understand a peculiar ritual.
they had gotten engaged during their typical white California
wedding. She had insisted that they both step over a broom.
together “as slaves married in the old South.” (Both
of these people were white, and had never been to the south or
studied the south – in this life) Once these two had cried
through their pain, sharing a passionate and joyful reunion,
they realized the madness of their teenage dreams. So
could free each other freely from the marriage that had been
proven to be just as dysfunctional in 21st century California.
This is an example of how past life contracts are viewed and
dissolved. In our next article, we will explore the most
everyone’s powerful past life contract. that’s the contract
between the client and his own higher self done before this
incarnation, the key to our soul’s purpose in this life,
the preconception contract.
Copyright © 2005 By David Quigley, CHT