Do you mind if I ask you a question? What are your social plans this weekend? What do you have planned this weekend? Are you going to do something this weekend?
If your answer is “Not at all” or “Not much,” then let me suggest that you start making an effort now to fill your weekend calendar with some social plans that will ensure you meet several new people and get you out of the house. comfortably and easily meet other people. You may be surprised at how comfortable you can feel while conversing comfortably with others.
Even if it’s Monday when you read this mature singles advice article and you’re wondering, “What the hell could he be thinking to mention my plans for this weekend? After all, my last weekend just ended, right?” “
Perfect timing then!
Start thinking about your singles looking for activities next weekend now gives you the whole week. That gives you plenty of time to evaluate the activities, results, and work of your dating strategy from the previous weekend.
In my job as a Date Coach, I usually coach my clients early in the week so they can do things now to make sure they actually have more dates next weekend. Get it? To get to meet people regularly during the week and then have interactive live dates, you need to be like the farmers and plant the seeds of socialization beforehand. You need to plan the seeds of socializing early in the week to reap the harvest of dating over the weekend.
So what are your plans for this coming weekend? A great way to think about it is to do some thoughtful assessments during your last weekend. What did you do? Did you meet new people? Any single? Exchange phone numbers? Yes? Do not?
In which case, it’s time to start contemplating some fun activities this weekend.
Pull out your local newspaper. You can use the print edition or the online version and check the calendar of community events. In the example of daylight saving time for at least another month, you’ll probably have some Street Fair options. Some food festivals maybe.
Circle 2 or 3 of these. Get the details and be sure to go, okay?
Or you can feel free to stay home alone for another weekend scrubbing your sink and downloading movies online while you’re alone.
Your choice.
What is my recommendation? Shut down your computer, go out and meet someone. All those encounters of various someones is what leads to that someone, that special someone for you.