There is an exciting new approach to getting the things we want most in our lives that many of you may have already heard of: the law of attraction.
The Law of Attraction, made famous by the book The Secret, is based on the premise that like attracts like. It simply says that you attract into your life situations, people, events, and circumstances that are aligned with your thinking, beliefs, and expectations. Your dominant thoughts will find a way to manifest; you attract everything you think about. Therefore, focusing on the things you want and reinforcing these thoughts with focused positive emotions, such as enthusiasm and gratitude, will in turn manifest them in your life. Part of the technique also includes visualization: storyboarding the things we want to attract into our lives as if we already have them, and thinking about them in the present tense every day. This serves to reprogram our current paradigms about what is possible, as our minds tend to want to focus on limitation.
Why not use these techniques, which have been quite effective for many people, to become more attractive to women?
Start by using visualization techniques, such as imagining yourself being accosted by women wherever you go. See yourself walking down the street or in a grocery store, and an attractive woman asks you for directions or the time with a smile, which then leads to a conversation and ends with an exchange of phone numbers. Or you can use another setting like the gym. See yourself exercising, when you notice an attractive woman continually looking at you from across the room. When you’re done with your workout, this woman walks up to you and you end up having drinks with her right after. The scenarios are endless. Use your imagination and always focus on the result you want.
Repetition is key to reprogramming your mind. You may want to look in the mirror every day and tell yourself how irresistible you are to women. Repeat this process every day, the more you repeat it, the more your subconscious will believe it and bring about an alignment between your conscious and subconscious minds. This alignment is critical to prevent one from contradicting or doubting the other, which would otherwise sabotage their results.
Think NOW, because your subconscious only operates in the present. Expect these women to be in the process NOW of showing up in your life. When the expectation is there, you are preparing for its manifestation. Don’t worry about the details of how, when and where. These are irrelevant to you and should be left up to the Universe to discover. The Universe will work as efficiently as possible for results to happen in a very fortuitous and synchronous way. Use phrases like “I’m sexy and attractive to women.” Or try: “I always find many women who are attracted to me wherever I go.” “The women are excited to meet me.” “I’m very popular with women.” The more you incorporate the present tense into your affirmations, the more successful they tend to be. With this, you set the universe to create reality in the now, rather than a future that may never come.
According to the Law of Attraction, DESIRE is the key to manifesting what we want. Within the seed of your desire is everything necessary for it to flourish to its fullest; and the Law of Attraction is the engine that does the work. Your job is simply to have the expectation, the desire. And the most effective way to establish your intentions and desires in your own subconscious and in the universe is with your emotions. It is the thought and feeling of whatever we want that creates reality. To create that reality, we must harness our emotions to imprint the thought on our subconscious mind; it also causes us to start vibrating on a frequency to attract the good things we want, all of us. However, it is important to note that both positive and negative emotions affect the Law of Attraction, so be careful that the emotions you have are positive ones of excitement, joy, and anticipation, and not fear, anger, or despair. .
With consistent use, these techniques have been successfully used by other people in other areas of their lives to attract what they wanted. They can be so helpful in attracting women, and anything else you want, to yours.