If you’ve ever wondered if a guy you’re interested in likes you, you’re not alone. If he only knew about some behavior problems, he could notice it in advance and could better think of his own strategy. At the end I also give you an easy and practical way to try it.
Eye contact
Start noticing how he looks at you. If you don’t know him before, he may be watching you from a distance. And every time he notices you looking at him, he pulls away. It is not a sign that he does not like you, but the sign of shyness. He sometimes gets obsessed if the guy you least care about behaves this way.
Commonly known – “the look” – when the guy sweeps his gaze from head to toe with a slight attempt at a smile it also means that he is interested. Somehow. Unfortunately, it usually just means that he would like to sleep with you. Of course, if that’s what you want too, go ahead! But if you want something deeper, be careful.
If you already know him, it’s easier to make eye contact with him. It is said that a woman can read a man’s heart through her eyes and that no man can hide her feelings if she looks him straight in the eye. And a guy who likes you will also try to make eye contact with you. Besides, if there’s nothing against the two of you being together, even a shy guy doesn’t need to look away.
body language
You can also notice which way the guy is standing when he looks at you or talks to you. He just looks at which way his feet point. If both feet are pointed toward you, it means he’s comfortable with that direction and doesn’t need to have an escape route. So this would also mean that he might like you.
Friends
Men don’t usually tell you directly if they like you or not. But if they are interested, they will tell their best friends that they would like to know more about you. And they could get their friends to find out things about you. If you notice this happening, it’s a sure sign.
Conversation
When you have to talk to him, it’s much easier to tell if he likes you or not. If he can be relaxed and just himself when you’re around, that means he’s comfortable around you. This does not mean anything other than that you can be at least very good friends. But instead, if he is watching you all the time, he doesn’t pay attention to what you say and you have the feeling that he would prefer to be somewhere else; most likely you are right. A shy guy (and not so shy if he has a crush on you) would be nervous and may not always be that natural when he talks to a woman. But if he is interested, he will try to make eye contact, smile, and talk about the things that interest you.
If a guy likes you, he also shows interest in the things you like and do. My advice is to try to steer a conversation into an area that you like and feel comfortable talking about. For example, if you like cats, feel free to tell me. It doesn’t matter if the guy doesn’t like cats at all, he might start comparing them to dogs (meaning that he has paid attention to what you said and is interested in your point of view). Remember to also listen to what he has to say and let him do the talking too!
Behaviour
How does the boy treat you? Many guys (not all!) joke around with a girl they like. He might as well be more polite to you than to the other girls. He opens the door for you, takes off your coat, gives you meat, etc. Any behavior that is different for you than others means that there is something special. This different behavior is easy and a good sign.
Other things
I also give you here some small signs that you can pay attention to to know if he likes you. These are somewhat more difficult to detect than the others. As I mentioned before, the feet would be pointing towards you, but he also subconsciously turns his shoulders towards you even when talking to another person. If you say “Oh I’m so dumb” or something around him, he’ll immediately tell you “no you’re not, (your name)”. And yes, that’s one more thing: if he says your name more often than usual during a conversation.
Tests
An easy and practical way to test if he is really interested is to simply take an innocent step into his personal space. If he walks away, he is not interested or a very shy person. But if he is interested, he will draw the boundaries of his personal place closer to you and allow you to get closer than usual.
conclusion
So now you know what things you need to pay attention to to know if the guy likes you: appearance, body language, his friends and how he pays attention to your interests and how he treats you. But why should you spend energy thinking about whether or not a guy likes you if you could just as hard make most men adore and take an interest in you?